pátek 16. července 2010
čtvrtek 15. července 2010
It´s not bad
10. All lesbians just want to be men.
Well, this is very assumption- based isn't it? I think it's pretty obvious that lesbians are just women who want to be with women. None of them thought of including a man in their relationship, what more the idea of being one! And unless you want to be weirdly glared at, I suggest you stay away from this thoughtless statement.
9. I am OK with lesbians, but I don't think I can handle two guys.
Well, yes. The thought of two macho men hooking up can be quite disturbing at times but this won't make any one feel any better! Lesbians are also part of the gay community and saying that you don't approve homosexuality in men, would indirectly mean that you don't approve of lesbians either. So keep this preference to yourself, lest you want to come across as insensitive.
8. You're too pretty and feminine to be a lesbian.
Aww, c'mon really? Are you seriously going to judge a person's sexuality based on their looks? Lesbians (Like gays) can come in any different type. Skinny or fat, hot or not, girly or not so girly... Who set a rule that says lesbians have to be ugly anyway?
7. How do you have sex without a man?
Umm... Honestly with the rise of sex toys these days, I don't think there's even a need for you to ask, right?
6. Why do you have to be shove your sexuality in our faces?
Unless you want a slap, don't, DON'T ask such and impudent question like this! Everyday, we celebrate heterosexual love and we see it everywhere! Couples holding hands, kissing... So it's unfair to tell them NOT to act like any other couple when they ARE like every other couple! Only just with a different taste in gender.
5. Lesbians can't raise kids! Children need both a mom and a dad.
If a single mom can raise good kids, then having double moms won't be a problem, will there? And besides, studies have shown that children raised by gay parents are no different from those who grow up in heterosexual households.
4. Are you hitting on me?
THIS is such a full-of-yourself question! Yes, lesbians have a sexual preference to other women, but not ALL women they see, they must have! It's just the same for heterosexuals!
3. Hello, Mr.....?
Ok, this is a little tricky. Just because some lesbians have short hair and wear men's clothes it doesn't necessarily mean that they want to be addressed as a male. However, some of them do, so this is really something that I would tread very carefully on if I were you.
2. Being a lesbian isn't biological, it's a choice.
Many studies have yet to prove if homosexuality is genetics of not. But many lesbians say that they don't make a conscious choice of who they fall for. And it's completely up to them, whether they choose women or men to be with anyway. So unless you have proof, then this is an offensive statement that you should stay clear of.
1. Can I watch?
Oh, PLEASE! Go watch those readily published ones online somewhere else, will you?
Well, this is very assumption- based isn't it? I think it's pretty obvious that lesbians are just women who want to be with women. None of them thought of including a man in their relationship, what more the idea of being one! And unless you want to be weirdly glared at, I suggest you stay away from this thoughtless statement.
9. I am OK with lesbians, but I don't think I can handle two guys.
Well, yes. The thought of two macho men hooking up can be quite disturbing at times but this won't make any one feel any better! Lesbians are also part of the gay community and saying that you don't approve homosexuality in men, would indirectly mean that you don't approve of lesbians either. So keep this preference to yourself, lest you want to come across as insensitive.
8. You're too pretty and feminine to be a lesbian.
Aww, c'mon really? Are you seriously going to judge a person's sexuality based on their looks? Lesbians (Like gays) can come in any different type. Skinny or fat, hot or not, girly or not so girly... Who set a rule that says lesbians have to be ugly anyway?
7. How do you have sex without a man?
Umm... Honestly with the rise of sex toys these days, I don't think there's even a need for you to ask, right?
6. Why do you have to be shove your sexuality in our faces?
Unless you want a slap, don't, DON'T ask such and impudent question like this! Everyday, we celebrate heterosexual love and we see it everywhere! Couples holding hands, kissing... So it's unfair to tell them NOT to act like any other couple when they ARE like every other couple! Only just with a different taste in gender.
5. Lesbians can't raise kids! Children need both a mom and a dad.
If a single mom can raise good kids, then having double moms won't be a problem, will there? And besides, studies have shown that children raised by gay parents are no different from those who grow up in heterosexual households.
4. Are you hitting on me?
THIS is such a full-of-yourself question! Yes, lesbians have a sexual preference to other women, but not ALL women they see, they must have! It's just the same for heterosexuals!
3. Hello, Mr.....?
Ok, this is a little tricky. Just because some lesbians have short hair and wear men's clothes it doesn't necessarily mean that they want to be addressed as a male. However, some of them do, so this is really something that I would tread very carefully on if I were you.
2. Being a lesbian isn't biological, it's a choice.
Many studies have yet to prove if homosexuality is genetics of not. But many lesbians say that they don't make a conscious choice of who they fall for. And it's completely up to them, whether they choose women or men to be with anyway. So unless you have proof, then this is an offensive statement that you should stay clear of.
1. Can I watch?
Oh, PLEASE! Go watch those readily published ones online somewhere else, will you?
30 things a girl wants but will never ask for
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Touch her waist.
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.
11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends. it makes her feel loved.
16. Play with her hair .only if she hasnt spent 382745623 hours on it .
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her shes beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her shes your everything – only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESNT WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her
24. Make her feel loved.
25-kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!!!!*
26. Dont lie to HER.*
27. DONT cheat on her.*
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants
29. Txt messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her.
30. Be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesnt need you, just be there so shell know that she can ALWAYS count on you.*