10. All lesbians just want to be men.
Well, this is very assumption- based isn't it? I think it's pretty obvious that lesbians are just women who want to be with women. None of them thought of including a man in their relationship, what more the idea of being one! And unless you want to be weirdly glared at, I suggest you stay away from this thoughtless statement.
9. I am OK with lesbians, but I don't think I can handle two guys.
Well, yes. The thought of two macho men hooking up can be quite disturbing at times but this won't make any one feel any better! Lesbians are also part of the gay community and saying that you don't approve homosexuality in men, would indirectly mean that you don't approve of lesbians either. So keep this preference to yourself, lest you want to come across as insensitive.
8. You're too pretty and feminine to be a lesbian.
Aww, c'mon really? Are you seriously going to judge a person's sexuality based on their looks? Lesbians (Like gays) can come in any different type. Skinny or fat, hot or not, girly or not so girly... Who set a rule that says lesbians have to be ugly anyway?
7. How do you have sex without a man?
Umm... Honestly with the rise of sex toys these days, I don't think there's even a need for you to ask, right?
6. Why do you have to be shove your sexuality in our faces?
Unless you want a slap, don't, DON'T ask such and impudent question like this! Everyday, we celebrate heterosexual love and we see it everywhere! Couples holding hands, kissing... So it's unfair to tell them NOT to act like any other couple when they ARE like every other couple! Only just with a different taste in gender.
5. Lesbians can't raise kids! Children need both a mom and a dad.
If a single mom can raise good kids, then having double moms won't be a problem, will there? And besides, studies have shown that children raised by gay parents are no different from those who grow up in heterosexual households.
4. Are you hitting on me?
THIS is such a full-of-yourself question! Yes, lesbians have a sexual preference to other women, but not ALL women they see, they must have! It's just the same for heterosexuals!
3. Hello, Mr.....?
Ok, this is a little tricky. Just because some lesbians have short hair and wear men's clothes it doesn't necessarily mean that they want to be addressed as a male. However, some of them do, so this is really something that I would tread very carefully on if I were you.
2. Being a lesbian isn't biological, it's a choice.
Many studies have yet to prove if homosexuality is genetics of not. But many lesbians say that they don't make a conscious choice of who they fall for. And it's completely up to them, whether they choose women or men to be with anyway. So unless you have proof, then this is an offensive statement that you should stay clear of.
1. Can I watch?
Oh, PLEASE! Go watch those readily published ones online somewhere else, will you?
Well, this is very assumption- based isn't it? I think it's pretty obvious that lesbians are just women who want to be with women. None of them thought of including a man in their relationship, what more the idea of being one! And unless you want to be weirdly glared at, I suggest you stay away from this thoughtless statement.
9. I am OK with lesbians, but I don't think I can handle two guys.
Well, yes. The thought of two macho men hooking up can be quite disturbing at times but this won't make any one feel any better! Lesbians are also part of the gay community and saying that you don't approve homosexuality in men, would indirectly mean that you don't approve of lesbians either. So keep this preference to yourself, lest you want to come across as insensitive.
8. You're too pretty and feminine to be a lesbian.
Aww, c'mon really? Are you seriously going to judge a person's sexuality based on their looks? Lesbians (Like gays) can come in any different type. Skinny or fat, hot or not, girly or not so girly... Who set a rule that says lesbians have to be ugly anyway?
7. How do you have sex without a man?
Umm... Honestly with the rise of sex toys these days, I don't think there's even a need for you to ask, right?
6. Why do you have to be shove your sexuality in our faces?
Unless you want a slap, don't, DON'T ask such and impudent question like this! Everyday, we celebrate heterosexual love and we see it everywhere! Couples holding hands, kissing... So it's unfair to tell them NOT to act like any other couple when they ARE like every other couple! Only just with a different taste in gender.
5. Lesbians can't raise kids! Children need both a mom and a dad.
If a single mom can raise good kids, then having double moms won't be a problem, will there? And besides, studies have shown that children raised by gay parents are no different from those who grow up in heterosexual households.
4. Are you hitting on me?
THIS is such a full-of-yourself question! Yes, lesbians have a sexual preference to other women, but not ALL women they see, they must have! It's just the same for heterosexuals!
3. Hello, Mr.....?
Ok, this is a little tricky. Just because some lesbians have short hair and wear men's clothes it doesn't necessarily mean that they want to be addressed as a male. However, some of them do, so this is really something that I would tread very carefully on if I were you.
2. Being a lesbian isn't biological, it's a choice.
Many studies have yet to prove if homosexuality is genetics of not. But many lesbians say that they don't make a conscious choice of who they fall for. And it's completely up to them, whether they choose women or men to be with anyway. So unless you have proof, then this is an offensive statement that you should stay clear of.
1. Can I watch?
Oh, PLEASE! Go watch those readily published ones online somewhere else, will you?
